Monday, February 1, 2016

January 2016

The new year is officially underway and we are doing fun things already!  January is a busy month for our little family and this year it treated us very well!

We began the month by going to a special breakfast on New Years Day with some of our close couple friends.  The Boswells were kind enough to host us all and it was so good to see them again since it doesn't happen often enough!  The Andersons, Boswells and us all have little boys fairly close in age so naturally we had to have a photo shoot.  I love these three boys too much!
Several of the couples had left by the time we took a group picture but we were able to get one of a few of us. We had a great time catching up with all of these wonderful friends!
One of Austin's favorite activities lately is rolling a ball back and forth with someone.  He is getting really good at catching the ball when it comes to him and letting go so it will roll back!
Eli's birthday is on the fourth and we always try to make that day special.  We don't do anything over-the-top but we definitely try to make it fun and memorable.  This year we met our families at the cemetery to sing and release balloons before going back to our place for cake and ice cream.  I could tell Eli was close to us all day and I know Austin could see and feel him.  He was extra happy that day and I'm sure it was because his big brother was close by. 
(I promise we brought Eli with us to the cemetery!  It was freezing though and he had just fallen asleep in the car so there was no way we were disturbing his nap!)

 
 

I had a wonderful birth experience with Eli and have only happy memories of that day.  I love thinking back to that special time and feel so grateful we were able to be at home as a family for six weeks before going to the hospital. It's hard to believe we should have a three year old and I wish so much he was here but I am so grateful for our faith and the comfort it brings to us.  Happy Birthday, angel boy!

Austin isn't crawling yet but that doesn't mean he doesn't find some way to get around!  He currently pushes backwards (which makes him very frustrated) and spins around on his tummy.  One day I had put him on his tummy with some toys and then sat down on the couch and a couple minutes later I turned around to this.
He had pushed backwards toward me and then spun around so he could face me and get my attention.  Such a smart little ham!

Logan's birthday is on the 6th of January and I always try to make it extra special because I feel like it gets overshadowed by Eli's.  When Eli was born, we were still in the hospital on Logan's birthday and I COMPLETELY forgot it was his birthday until someone reminded me.  I felt awful!  Ever since then I've tried to go out of my way to make sure he knows how important he is to us.  Unfortunately Logan had to work on his birthday this year but he came home to his favorite dinner (The Dodo!) and his favorite dessert from Kneaders.  I surprised him with something he wanted for his Xbox and Austin was super happy all day so I think it was a good day for Logan!  Happy birthday, daddy!  We sure love you!
We finally gave in this month and invested in a test that would tell us whether Logan is Homozygous or Heterozygous.  This was important because if he is Heterozygous, we would have a 50% chance of having a baby with negative blood and thus avoiding Rh Disease.  However, if it came back that he is Homozygous then we would always have positive blood babies who would not be able to avoid Rh Disease.  Unfortunately Logan is Homozygous so we will always be dealing with the Rh incompatibility.  
We still have two SCID-free embryos frozen which are extremely valuable so we will definitely use those.  "They" say that Rh Disease gets progressively worse with each pregnancy so that doesn't bode well for our future pregnancies/babies but we don't want to give up yet.  We'll keep trusting in God's plan for our little family and take it one step at a time.  For now, we are loving that Austin is so healthy and happy and we're excited to focus on him for awhile before looking to the future too much.

Austin turned eight months in January!  I can't believe it has been that long yet at the same time it feels like he has been with us forever.  At eight months, Austin weighed somewhere between 16.5 and 17 pounds and was just over 25 inches long.  He doesn't crawl yet but he's getting really close!  He has started recognizing more words that we say like: "hungry" "kisses" and "bath" and knows exactly what they mean.  He is a really good sleeper, typically going down around 8:00, waking up to eat around 6:00, and going back to bed until 8:00.  Austin used to entertain himself pretty well but now he is much more demanding and almost always wants someone to play with him.  We love it but it definitely makes getting anything done a bit hard!  He is a great little eater and eats just about anything we give him, with the exception of a few baby foods that I myself wouldn't touch with a ten foot pole so I don't blame him!  We sure are grateful for our blue-eyed boy!
 
 
We were over visiting my mom one day and Austin was getting the biggest kick out of watching her throw a ball up in the air and catching it.  It was too cute!  He couldn't stop giggling and had the biggest grin on his face the entire time :)
There was one night this month that Austin was in a really silly mood and I thought his new jammies from his cousin were super cute so I attempted a mini photo shoot and he was so cooperative!
We were able to go to the Museum of Natural Curiosity this month for the first time and it was so much fun!  My mom bought a "Grandparents' Pass" so I'm sure we'll spend a lot of time there this year!  Austin was a big fan of everything there and loved watching his older cousins run around and climb on things.  I can tell he'll be a mover as soon as he learns to walk!  They have this really cool water table there that most kids played in but when I felt the freezing water I was sure Austin would hate it.  I couldn't help myself though and had to let him try it out...aka I needed some pictures!  Awful mom award, I know.  I was right, he hated it!  As soon as the water soaked through his diaper and he started getting wet he wanted right out!  Luckily I got some pretty adorable angry pictures :)

 
 
 
 
 
 
It's amazing how much kids pick up on when you don't even notice them paying attention! Logan and I had taken Austin for his routine labs one day and it was a super long wait so we were all bored.  Logan had gotten a drink from the cafeteria and Austin wanted it really bad!  Logan eventually let him hold it and he stuck the straw right in his mouth!  We couldn't believe it because we've never given him a cup like that before.  We both got quite a kick out of it and he was so proud of himself even though he didn't get anything.
January 15th was a big day as it was my grandpa's 91st birthday!  Logan and I have the opportunity of living with him right now and it's such a treat knowing he likely doesn't have a whole lot of time left.  His memory is fading but he's super healthy for a 91 year old and quite independent.  Some of the family was able to go out to his favorite Mexican restaurant for his birthday and he seemed to have a great time receiving so much attention.  We sure love our papa!
 
On Saturday the 23rd we had family pictures taken with the Jorgensens.  They hadn't had pictures taken since before Logan's mission so they were long overdue!  We went to Camera Shy in Jordan Landing and thought they did a pretty good job!  I wasn't a big fan of how they had me standing in our little family picture but everything else turned out pretty cute so I can't complain too much :)




 
 
Toward the end of the month Austin started refusing his afternoon nap and it was dreadful for both of us!  He still really needs it so I hope it's just a phase he's going through.  I got some great suggestions from other moms about ways to get him to take his second nap so I'm really hoping they work!
Austin LOVES standing any time he can!  He'll stand hanging on to furniture, toys, or your hands.  We have always helped him but one day Logan and I were doing something else and looked over to see him pull himself up!  I love how big he's getting!
Finally, we wrapped up our month with a day like this!
Austin was cranky which meant I was cranky and when I was feeding him dinner he smacked the spoon away and got a face full of veggies!  I lost it and could not stop laughing.  We definitely got a kick out of the mess :)

January was great to us and we can't wait to see what next month brings!  We hope the weather starts being kinder as well because we want to go outside more!



Sunday, January 3, 2016

December 2015 and a New Year

December!  What a fun month!  I have always loved the holidays but this time of year with Austin made it 10x better.  I loved starting our own little family traditions and already can't wait until next year when he'll be able to participate even more.

December started off with this gem of a conversation I had with my nephew.  His mom denied it went down this way but I think I trust Will on this one.

In our last ward there was a group of ladies I became good friends with and four of us have done IVF.  I've lost track of how many cycles they have all done but between all of us it's right around 20!  Those mamas sure have been dedicated to get their babies here!  At the beginning of the month we were able to get some of the miracle babies together.
Adelaide: 2 | Russell: 2.5 Weeks | Austin: 6 Months | Eddie: 6 Weeks | Ruby: 2
The Festival of Trees is one of my favorite Christmas traditions, especially since Eli had a tree there.  Every time I walk through the doors I feel the most special spirit the entire time.  Can you imagine how many angles are in there?  This year I was able to go with my mom and sister-in-law.  The kids were so cute sitting on Santa's lap!  My niece, Lily, kept saying: "I didn't know he would be here?!"  Austin wasn't too impressed with him but at least he didn't cry, right?


 

Austin turned seven months in December!  He woke up with a nasty ear infection the day he turned seven months so we went straight to the doctor to get him on an antibiotic.  I couldn't believe how fast it came on but I knew that's what it was.  He suddenly had a fever, runny nose, and was pulling on his ears.  He had a rough 24 hours but as soon as the antibiotic kicked in he was back to his happy self.  At the doctor he weighed 15lb 13oz and the doctor (who we had never seen before) kept saying how much she loved his Buddha belly :) At seven months, Austin is a happy clam and surprises us with hilarious noises, faces, and mannerisms every day.  I can tell he's dying to crawl by the way he looks at things and kicks his legs but he's not there yet.  


Another one of my favorite Christmas traditions is going to dinner and Temple Square with my family.  Fortunately we had awesome weather and we went in the middle of the week so it wasn't too crowded at all.  We made sure to bundle Austin up really well just to be safe and he enjoyed a nice snooze the whole time.


We had a really nice Christmas Eve with Logan's family this year and enjoyed being at his parents' house eating dinner and watching the kids open a few presents.  Austin loves attention (which he gets a lot of) and thought it was pretty great wearing his older cousin's Santa hat.  We made it a fairly early night so we could get Austin to bed and because Santa had quite a bit of work to do still!  Minus the awful migraine I got toward the end of the night, Christmas Eve was a great success!

Matching cousin PJs from my parents :)
Christmas Day was perfect!  Our busy day began bright and early but we wouldn't have wanted it any other way. We spent the morning at home opening a few presents each and enjoying our time as a little family.  We only got Austin a couple of presents and it's a good thing because he hated every present that was given to him that day!  I think he was super overwhelmed by everything that was going on because every time we put him in front of a new toy he would shake and burst into tears!  (Thankfully he has since warmed up to all of them and loves his new toys.)
Don't let this smile fool you--he HATED this thing all day!  Now that it's at home he is a much bigger fan.
After getting ready we made a quick stop at the cemetery to wish our boy a Merry Christmas.  Logan and I were FREEZING but Austin had a giant grin on his face the entire time.  I like to think his brother was there making him smile :)

We then went over to my parents' house for my mom's traditional Christmas brunch.  We spent awhile with my family enjoying being all together and feeling so blessed for everything we have.  I feel so fortunate to have so much in my life when so many others have much less.  After my parents' house we made our way to be with Logan's family at his aunt and uncle's for dinner.  Logan's uncle is a great cook and capped our day off with a super tasty dinner.  The day couldn't have been more magical and I feel like Austin's first Christmas was perfect!
Exhausted baby boy cuddling his mimi :)
My parents' neighbors set up a really neat Christmas village/train display every year and we love going to see it. Austin was fascinated by everything and was being such a good boy watching the train go by until he quickly whipped his hand out and derailed one of the trains before I could stop him!  A little girl looked up at me and said: "You're not supposed to touch the trains!" and I couldn't help but laugh and defend myself.  You bet I blamed it on my baby!  We were super embarrassed but fortunately no damage was done :)

I have two great friends that I went to college with who both had babies a couple months ago and we were finally able to get together for lunch!  I love that we all had babies this year and can't wait to get them together for many more play dates!
Bo: 2.5 Months | Korynn: 2.5 Months | Austin: 7.5 months
We celebrated New Years Eve with my family by going bowling and it was so much fun!  I hadn't been bowling in years and man, I'm terrible!  My brother and Logan were both on the bowling team in high school so it was a bit competitive between them but we all had a great time ringing in the new year!
I can't believe 2015 is over!  This past year was filled with miracles and blessings we could only dream of and also had several challenges that made us much stronger people.  I'm sure everyone can guess what our highlight of the year was!  Austin has brought us more happiness than we ever imagined possible and has brought a light back into our home that we have sorely missed since Eli died.  The spirit of a child is incredibly powerful and our home feels like a new place since Austin has come into our lives.

Austin's health challenges this year were unexpected and at times difficult to handle but we know they helped him and us become who we are right now.  We are grateful the Lord has continued to give us trials and challenges because we have so much to learn!  There were times earlier this year that it was hard to see a light at the end of the tunnel with Austin's health but here we are at the start of a new year and he couldn't be healthier!  In the next month or so we expect him to be discharged from all PCH services and be given a clean bill of health.  I can't express what an amazing feeling that is!

We are looking forward to 2016 and are sure it will be a great year!  No doubt there will be trials this year but we are confident we can make it through them if we continue to rely on the gospel and our families and friends. Many, many prayers have been offered on our family's behalf this year and I wish there were words to express our gratitude to all of you who have remembered us in yours this year.  Please know that we pray everyone will feel of our gratitude for all that has been done for our little family.

So long, 2015!