After Eli passed away, Primary's was incredibly helpful and told us to take as much time as we needed and that when we were ready, they would be happy to help us get our genetic testing done. Not knowing how long this process would take, Logan and I decided to get it going right away. Our blood was sent to a doctor in Boston that is studying Eli's specific type of SCID and we received the results this week. While we couldn't help but have a little bit of hope that the results would come back negative, we were told exactly what we expected to hear: Logan and I are indeed carriers of Eli's type of SCID, Reticular Dysgenesis. The chance of having a baby with this type of SCID is about 1 in 3 to 5 million. In the case of Eli's SCID, if one parent is a carrier but the other isn't, he wouldn't have been affected. Both Logan and I had to be carriers in order to pass it on. It's a good thing we don't gamble because we have the worst luck ever! ;)
Our next step in this process is to meet with a specialist regarding our options which will probably happen in a couple months but we have a basic idea of what our future likely holds. There is a 25% chance that any future babies we have will be affected. While we know that one option is to "roll the dice" and get pregnant and hope we don't have an affected baby, that isn't an option Logan and I are willing to consider. Fortunately Preimplantation Genetic Diagnosis or Embryo Selection through IVF would allow us to test the embryos before implantation to determine which ones are unaffected allowing us to only implant the healthy ones. Logan and I know that our journey to having another baby will be long and have many obstacles but we couldn't be more grateful that there is a path available to us that we are comfortable with.
On another note...just like the rest of Utah, Logan and I watched the big "Holy War" last night with some wonderful friends. I may rethink watching it with the same people next time because there's nothing worse than being surrounded by a bunch of obnoxious Utah fans and feeling like you're the lone Cougar fan. Although most people are sad they won't be playing each other for a few years, I think I'm happy about it because now I won't have to watch BYU's losing streak continue!
Thanks for such a fun night, everyone!
Love you both so much~I always knew you two were exceptional but this might be carrying things a bit too far:)
ReplyDeleteEven though this road is more challenging than most, what a blessing it is that medicine has advanced to be able to test unaffected embryos and be able to give you a healthy baby without the worry of SCID! While needing fertility help isn't the "ideal" way to get pregnant, without it I wouldn't have my sweet little boys. Anything I can do to help talk you through the process, please let me know! We'll be around conference weekend and would love to get together!
ReplyDeleteYou two are so amazing! We continue to pray for you as your adventure continues!
ReplyDeleteI am so grateful that we live in this time so you and Logan have more options than just adoption. Adoption is amazing, you and I have discussed my strong feelings that adoption will be a part of my life in the future, but I am glad that you have multiple options. You continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. I love you, Logan and Eli so much and am eternally grateful that I have the privilege of knowing you all.
ReplyDeleteYou and Logan are so great and selfless. I have not heard of embryo selection but I'm so glad that's an option and wish you the very very best.
ReplyDeleteLike everyone else has stated already, I'm glad we live in a time where we have options! I hope the best for you guys and you deserve it. I hope your insurance will help you out with your decision and if not, then I hope you can find a grant that will help you.
ReplyDeleteI agree it is so annoying to be surrounded by loud Ute fans while watching the game! Love that BYU sweater you're wearing it's super cute. Love you guys! Glad you are getting some much needed answers.
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